Green or yellow?

January 30, 2010
I decided to go to the spotlight dance on February 12th with my friend Viktoryia. It's our Valentine’s Day treat to ourselves and plus we both like dancing! :0) At the stoplight dance you're supposed to wear green if you're single, yellow if it's complicated and red if you're taken. After agreeing to go I realized I didn't know what color to wear. I know it sounds ridiculous. After all I should know if I’m single, taken, or if it’s complicated right?
The thing is, there is someone and I would say the color of our relationship is more of a green- yellow.
At first I thought well,I should be wearing yellow if we're in what I call the grey area. If it's in the grey area that means it’s complicated. What's wrong with being in the grey area anyway?
What exactly is the grey area? It's that area you're in when you're more than friends but not an official couple. The grey area is actually pretty big. After all we have one night stands, friends with benefits, fake dates, and then the people we are actually dating. I admit I'm used to being in that area. But I have realized the grey area only seems like a fun place to stay. Eventually you want to know if you are going anywhere with the person you're seeing or not.

I also realized I don’t want to spend the night explaining why my relationship with someone else is in the grey area. So I will wear a green scarf to the dance. When the time is right, the lady in the green scarf will become the lady in red. ; 0p